What else could you focus on?…

Perhaps something that might actually change your soul for the better?

Or change the world for the better?

A poem that perfectly captures the essence of what I’m trying to say (h/t to Dr. Amy Jacobsen for sharing this with me!):

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If women did half the work on the inside as they do on the outside they would be amazed at how a life can change. How they can attract wildly wonderful beings into their worlds. How relationships can deepen. How they can fall in love with their own breathing hearts. How they can build a force field around themselves that will repel anyone or anything that does not match their precious energy. Looks will only take you so far. A gorgeous soul will take you everywhere.

By Cara Alwill Leyba